How does Speed Dating work?

Upon arrival at one of our Speed Dating events, you will be checked in and given a personalised badge with a number on it. You will be given time to relax and make yourself comfortable. Your host will give a quick welcome speech to let you know what to expect. Once the dating part of the evening starts, those with badge number one will start at table number one, those with badge number two at table number two and so on. After FIVE minutes, we will ring a bell, the girls will stay seated and all the guys will move round one table. This continues (with a half time break) until you have met everyone there.

What if I like another speed dater?

You will probably like lots of other people at one of our Speed Dating evenings - the difficulty is choosing who you would really like to see again. Use your Score Card to make notes at the end of each date and tick the people you like and want to see again. At the end of the evening we will collect all cards and will confirm with everyone in no more than 48 hours what matches you received with their email addresses.  The rest is up to you !  We also have a friends choice if you would prefer to have someone just as a friend !

How do the Speed Dating scorecards work?

The scorecards are constructed in two sheets. The second sheet is to be completed and handed in at the end of the evening to a member of the organising team and the first sheet is for your own use and is to be taken home with you at the end of the evening for your own information. We ask that you complete the name and number of each date and tick ‘yes’ or ‘no’ whether you would like to meet that person again. Please remember when ticking that you are not committing yourself to a relationship with that person, you are only indicating whether you would be interested in investing some extra time to establish whether you wish to embark on a relationship, have that person as a friend or you may decide that you have nothing in common and do not wish to pursue any sort of relationship at all.

How many people can I tick when Speed Dating?

There is no limit you can tick as many or as few as you wish. It is totally acceptable to organise several meetings with different ‘dates’ you have matched with during a speed dating event. Remember that one of the elements of the concept of speed dating is to allow guests to have an element of choice.

What should I wear?

This is one of the main questions people ask, particularly the ladies! We always say ‘smart casual’ is best. Just think of what you would wear for a mid week date. It is important to remember to be yourself and let your ‘chosen outfit’ reflect your true personality and not try to be someone different. Remember first impressions count.

Do many people come on their own?

About a third do - we make a point of ensuring our organisers will make sure you are comfortable and put you at your ease. Many people find it easier to bring a friend along for moral support and to help overcome the first date nerves - we are happy to accommodate this.